The most challenging aspect of self-reliance is often the lack of external validation or recognition.
Here's why:
- Internal Validation: You have to actively seek and internalize external validation from others. This can be a frustrating process, especially when you're struggling to find it yourself.
- Self-Reflection: You need to actively reflect on your own strengths, weaknesses, and what you're good at. This can be time-consuming and require self-compassion.
- Motivation: Self-reliance can be incredibly motivating, but it also requires a strong sense of purpose and a clear goal. If you don't have a clear vision for your life, it can be difficult to keep going.
- Resistance to Change: It can be challenging to resist changes or to embrace new skills or interests.
